As we live, we are transmitters of life. And when we fail to transmit life, life fails to flow through us. That is part of the mystery of sex, it is a flow onwards. Sexless people transmit nothing. And if, as we work, we can transmit life into our work DH Lawrence, poet Read more >
Apr 19, 2016We had another dump of snow this morning, so I’m stoked for spring to come. I cheated and had an early taste of it in California in February. Returning home into the dark and cold was hard. I felt tired, a bit burnt out and unenthused. Then I got sick, which forced my attention to self-care. And it was at that point that I discovered a great resource to share with you – yawning! Read more >
Mar 23, 2016Pleasure means different things to different people. When I talk about Unlock Pleasure, the first question I’m often asked is, “What do you mean by pleasure?” … And sex is what people are thinking of. Read more >
Mar 08, 2016Pleasure doesn’t just come from getting everything we want, and or in just the way we think we need it. Some pleasure comes from facing challenges or difficult things, finding our strengths and building confidence. Read more >
Mar 01, 2016I’ve lived many lifetimes. Years ago I was the celebrant at a Crones Crowning, a celebration of four older women honouring their passage into the mature adulthood phase of their lives. Each spoke about their lives, and I learned a lot from these wise women. The most significant thing I heard that day was what one woman said about love. I’ll call her Betty (not her real name). Read more >