Pleasure & Sexuality

Pleasure & Sexuality

May 09, 2016

Life Force - We are Its Transmitters

As we live, we are transmitters of life. And when we fail to transmit life, life fails to flow through us. That is part of the mystery of sex, it is a flow onwards. Sexless people transmit nothing. And if, as we work, we can transmit life into our work DH Lawrence, poet Read more >

Mar 23, 2016

Pleasure … sexual and otherwise

Pleasure means different things to different people. When I talk about Unlock Pleasure, the first question I’m often asked is, “What do you mean by pleasure?” … And sex is what people are thinking of. Read more >

Mar 01, 2016

Life-long Love Affairs

I’ve lived many lifetimes. Years ago I was the celebrant at a Crones Crowning, a celebration of four older women honouring their passage into the mature adulthood phase of their lives. Each spoke about their lives, and I learned a lot from these wise women. The most significant thing I heard that day was what one woman said about love. I’ll call her Betty (not her real name). Read more >

Feb 21, 2016

Eros, Sex, Love, Pleasure?  What will it be for you on Valentine’s Day?

Valentines Day is the celebration of love. Mostly this is focused on romantic love. Cupid with his arrow of Eros aims to pierce your heart. It conjures up a day full of pleasure – chocolate, flowers, candlelight dinners in fancy restaurants, and if all goes well, an intimate, sensuous interlude follows. All sounds good, right? But will there be true pleasure? Read more >

Feb 21, 2016

Moving from For Survive to Thrive

Last weekend I gave a workshop on the connections between pleasure and authenticity. My participants really rose to the topic, and here’s why. Read more >

Oct 28, 2015

Pleasure … sexual and otherwise

Pleasure means different things to different people. When I talk about Unlock Pleasure, the first question I’m often asked is, “What do you mean by pleasure?” … And sex is what people are thinking of. The pleasure of our everyday, moment-to-moment lives is what I’m primarily focusing on in this work, and this includes the pleasure of our intimate relations and our sensuous capacities. Read more >