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What is your Relationship with Pleasure?
People often ask me – “What is the most common obstacle to creating a better relationship with pleasure?” Pleasure can be fraught with guilt, denial of the need, vague and unarticulated fears and negative associations. But the most common block is the dance we all do between the desire for pleasure and the resistance to feeling, for want of another word un-pleasure - the challenges of life: loss, disappointments, painful interactions or situations. These are the hurdles and obstacles that we believe block our ability to have pleasure Read more >
Sep 27, 2017Fill Your Cup Everyday
As the Unlock Pleasure project unfolds, I realize how much confusion there often is about pleasure. I want to simplify it. It shouldn’t be hard or another pressure – one more item on your to do list. It does require having it on your radar – knowing why it’s good and important and then just lift your head. Pleasure is available in any moment, but you might have heard me say, pleasure is unique and individual – it means different things to different people. Read more >
Aug 30, 2017Water marks – Symbols from nature to remind us
While on holiday this summer I spent a lot of time on the water – Lake Huron’s freshwater environment and later in P.E.I. with my family, a reunion with the ocean and its tides. Read more >
Aug 15, 2017Pleasure - Going Deeper and Broader
This summer while taking some down time, I reflected on my Unlock Pleasure project. When I started it in late fall of 2014, I had a general idea regarding what it was about, but now 2 1/2 years later the project has evolved in both scale and scope. Read more >
Jul 26, 2017The Curious Stats on Women’s Sexual Experience
Erotic and sensual pleasure is an important aspect of pleasure for sure. I make it a priority to keep my finger on the pulse (pun intended) of what’s happening in the world of what I call the positive sex movement which includes the latest research and trends in the field. Read more >